Always ask for consent/permission before touching or engaging with someone, only proceed if the answer is enthusiastic and given freely. Respect that no means NO and graciously move on, this is not to be challenged. No’s include but are not exclusive to: a ‘head shake’ “no thank you” “not right now” “I need a time out” and anything but an enthusiastic ‘nod’ or an enthusiastic “yes”. Flirting is very much encouraged, as is making connections however, this is a two-way street.

You are not obligated to participate in anything you don't want to. Our events are built around community, so you're welcome to have a drink, dance, play some fun games, have a chat and make new connections with some lovely sapphic babes.

Do not interrupt scenes or moments between people you have not discussed with first (this includes both physical and verbal interruptions; people kissing, playing or engaging in BDSM play). Voyeurism is fine, but sitting next to someone uninvited and staring at them is going to make them uncomfortable. We ask that you keep any general chit chat, introductions or scene negotiations outside of the play spaces, so as not to kill the vibe ;)

The privacy of our guests in this beautiful sapphic space is extremely important to us, so we ask that you check your phone in at the entrance. If you need to answer a text message or check in with loved ones, we ask that you do so in reception.

Always inform a Tease host or security member if someone has made you feel uncomfortable. We are there for you and your comfort and safety is paramount. This includes you feeling unsure of how to navigate a certain situation or even conversation, we are here for you whether it is your first event or your hundredth event. If there is something we haven’t spotted right away that you can alert us to, we can then deal with the issue and remove the guest in question instantly. There are always multiple people available, and you should never feel shy about informing us of anything, no matter how small.

Personal hygiene, safe sex and sanitising supplies are freely available in each of the playrooms and dungeon. We ask that you wipe down any beds, play equipment or surfaces that you have used to maintain a safe, clean and sexy space for everyone.

BDSM scenes of any kind are not to be interrupted. This is a non-negotiable. These are both thrilling and beautiful to watch but are very specific to those involved, others can only join if invited and consent is given by everyone in the 'scene'. These require an extra level of communication and skill to explore.
BDSM scenes include but are not exclusive to impact play, rope play, restraint play and D/S dynamics.

Tease is a safe space for sapphic people to feel sexy, liberated and empowered. We do not allow casual dress, such as light jeans, sportswear or something you would pop to the pub in, please make an effort. You will very likely see guests in lingerie, daring dresses, leather trousers/shorts, shirts, harnesses, fetishwear, shorts, PVC, lace, mesh etc. We are a no-judgement party and you are free to express your sexuality. We invite you to join in with our colour theme for each event and post 'outfit inspo' on Instagram for each event.